Monday, February 27, 2012

Developing the ability to be and stay organized!



A friend once said to me “touch paper once and deal with it.” If you go to the effort of picking it up, do something with it so you don’t have to pick it up again. Along with this same premise is the concept “complete a task right away if it will take you less than 5 minutes to do so” – everyone has 5 minutes in a day to complete the job. Putting it away or avoiding it till later only keeps it in your head and on your list sometimes, indefinitely.
So being and staying organized is a mixture of action, intention and follow-through. Things become unorganized when we say to ourselves “I will get to that later.” Just deal with it now and get it done – later often never comes.
Part of creating an organized lifestyle is knowing, what system works for you. In our office, many of us keep information and to do lists in notebooks. When I flip through the pages of my notebook, all my meeting pages have dates so I can look back to discussions and ideas as events develop. I can keep to do lists alongside meeting notes and use a system of an * highlighting my action items after every meeting. When jobs are done and pages in my notebooks are complete, and events are complete I use a diagonal line across the page to visually inform myself there is nothing else to see or do here. My job is complete which also provides a sense of accomplishment.
Finally the act of writing and re-writing to do lists keeps projects fresh and up to date while not losing key follow-through items along the way. Although it sounds tedious, the act of re-writing your action items gets the details out of your head, onto paper and ready for completion.
In summary remember four points of action when starting to get organized and creating your own organizing strategies:
1.       Touch paper once – deal with it!
2.       If it takes less than 5 minutes to do it…then just do it!
3.       Put things back where they belong the very first time
4.       Buy a notebook and create lists

Monday, January 16, 2012

Shabby Chic 1st Birthday Party

I feel as though I have blinked my eyes and a year has passed, as I start to plan my daughters, Shabby Chic 1st Birthday Party. So much emotion is involved with any event, and a 1st birthday is no different.


Throughout this past year, vintage items have been passed down and collected and in turn, this has created an ongoing style for my daughter’s nursery and now birthday party.

A few elements that will define the look for this memorable bash are:

1. Vintage typewriter – This typewriter was given to me as a gift when I was a little girl and it will be the perfect addition to the guest book table. Guests will type birthday wishes on textured cream paper and it will become a perfect keepsake for the baby book.


2. Antique Teacups & saucers – My grandmother has given me a few sets of beautiful, floral teacups & saucers over the past few years and I have started to be on the lookout for them when antiquing. These eclectic dishes will set the tone for a dainty afternoon.



3. Custom party hats – My sister-in-law gave me the most adorable 1st Birthday Vintage party hat which has now created the activity for the older kids to create at the party. They will be crafting custom hats with pearls, buttons, lace & feathers.



4. The Table – Like any party, the food & beverage is one of the highlights. Using lace tablecloths, retro fabric flags, and modern dishes mixed with old vintage items will create the perfect backdrop to delicious bite size treats & candies.



5. Storybook Favors – To finish the party, classic storybooks will be handed out to the children as they go home.



Combining all of these elements together will create the Shabby Chic 1st Birthday that my daughter, won’t ever remember!!!!, but will be able to look back on through photographs for a lifetime and see the love that has surrounded from the beginning.

Kimberly Evans
Partner & Director of Special Events
RSVP Event Design, Decor & Rentals

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Planning the Perfect Home Christmas Party

So I’m sure you are all getting pretty overwhelmed with the crazy busy holiday season. If you’re hosting a Christmas party the stress level goes up a few notches! We at RSVP have a little experience in this area so I thought I’d pass on some wisdom…



What to do, what to do …

We all go to so many Christmas parties that it’s often hard to come up with something creative to make yours look a little different! This year for our staff party we are doing an around the world theme. We are each bringing dishes that reflect our heritage. This (hopefully) will result in an opportunity to try new things and learn more about each other. This could even go a step further and involve sharing traditions or costumes!

Other themes could include a Chocolate Factory -where every dish has to somehow include chocolate (Chocolate martini’s anyone?), a color theme – A white Christmas where everyone wears white, or be inspired by your favourite Christmas movie – an Elf theme might include a lot of Maple Syrup!




A Winter Wonderland

“Oh, the weather outside is frightful…” We know all to well how it would just be easier to stay home in the cold evenings of winter. Let’s come up with some ways to make your guests feel warm and cozy and right at home! If possible putting a fire on is a great idea. Lots of Christmas lights and candle light can warm the space right up! Even having a few nice throw blankets around the room can allow your guests to cuddle up on the couch and enjoy the evening and the company. Having a variety of warm foods and drinks will also warm up your guests when they come out of the cold. Consider specialty coffees or hot chocolates served with warm sticky toffee pudding or fresh out of the oven pumpkin pie!



Make it easy…

The most important element of a Christmas party is entertaining your guests, the second is making it easy on yourself! Having a themed potluck allows others to contribute, opportunities to be creative, and takes some of the stress away. Have guests bring their favourite board games or movies for entertainment. Planning a gift exchange is always a great source of entertainment and there are lots of options to spice things up! Another way to take away stress is to minimize dishes. At RSVP, we rent a variety of plates, stemware, and flatware. Renting a place setting will make your space look beautiful and we do the dishes! You can also rent linens, napkins, and décor so come see us as your planning the perfect home Christmas party!

Friday, October 14, 2011

The Takedown

I am going to talk about the aspect of weddings that nobody likes to mention: the takedown. Oh, the dreaded takedown! It is so much more fun setting up a wedding and making everything look beautiful than it is to tear it all down. It’s great to see the months (and in some cases years) of hard work and ideas come to life but taking it all down and loading it out is a completely different story.




Some venues allow you to come back the next day and take down but more often than not, everything has to be taken down the night of the wedding. That means every single chair cover, sash, candle, cake stand, favour box etc has to be out the door. Let’s face it, the last thing the bride and groom want to do is untie 200 chair covers and sashes at 2:00 in the morning after the biggest day of their life! Although your family and friends may not admit it, it is also the last thing they want to do. Weddings are fun and emotional but they are also very exhausting and by 2:00 am and after 4 glasses of wine most bridal parties are spent!



When hiring a wedding planner it is very important to find out exactly what they take care of and what is up to the bride and groom



• Will they tear down tables and chairs if the venue requires it?

• Do they clear place settings, including cutlery and glasses?

• Will they mop floors and wipe down tables if necessary?

• Can they remove empty bottles from the venue and return for recycling?

• Do they charge a minimum of time for takedowns?

• Do they charge extra for after 2:00 am or on long weekends?

• Will they return all of the rentals including those that were not rented through them?



The return of rental items is a very big issue. You might have rented items from 5 different rental companies and they all have to be returned the day after your wedding. Do you want to wake up the day after your wedding and spend hours driving around the city returning chair covers, arches, candles, cake stands etc? Do you even have the right vehicle to facilitate this?



At RSVP Event Design we take care of everything for the takedown and I mean everything! We do not charge a minimum of time or any extra for coming in at 2:00 am. We will come in and untie every chair sash, wipe down tables, climb ladders to remove ceiling draping and even mop floors. We will return everything even if it is not rented through us. It’s not the most glamourous part of our job, but as the planner it is a very big part of our job and we are happy to do it!










Thursday, September 15, 2011

The Guest’s Experience

As the summer comes to a close I am reflecting back on the many wonderful weddings we had the privilege of working on this season. Because I am usually in attendance at the wedding, I am able to gain the perspective of some very important people: the guests. Believe it or not, the guests are often forgotten about on the big day and as a wedding planner it is my job to ensure that the bride and groom are not the only people enjoying the party. There are many little details that can make or break a wedding when it comes to the guests overall experience:



Timing



Have you ever been to a wedding that started late? Most weddings run a few minutes behind as last minute guests trickle in but if your ceremony is running 20 – 30 minutes late, that is going to start a snowball effect on everything else following the ceremony. Photos will probably now take longer than anticipated which means that the food service will be running late which of course means your guests will be waiting to eat. We all know that a well fed guest is a happy guest so do your best to keep everything running on schedule.



Event Flow



A rule of thumb in event planning is to have something happen every 30 minutes to keep your guests entertained. This does not have to mean a grand event every half hour but something should happen to keep everyone on their toes and excited to see what’s coming next.



• Courses of the meal

• A speech or toast

• Cake Cutting

• Garter Toss

• Bouquet Toss



These are all traditional elements of a wedding but if you time them well they can have a much greater impact. You might want to consider mixing the courses of the meal with speeches instead of stacking all of the speeches one after another. Guests will appreciate hearing 1 or 2 speeches at time rather than listen to 7 or 8 in a row. Additionally, remember to keep those slideshows short and sweet. Ten minutes is perfect but anything longer than that might make for some antsy guests. You might also want to consider cutting the cake during the meal when you have everyone’s attention instead of waiting until the end when the guests likely want to go to the washroom or stretch their legs.



Guests Comfort



This might seem like a simple detail but the guests overall comfort is sometimes overlooked. Outdoor ceremonies are beautiful but they certainly come with added considerations. Rain, extreme heat, bugs, easily accessible washrooms and parking are all aspects to consider when planning your ceremony. As a wedding planner it is my job to consider these points and come up with solutions which are sometimes as simple as bringing in heaters, generators or providing water for the guests. An outdoor reception can be an idyllic setting but your friends and family might not be the only guests wanting to enjoy the meal! Keeping bugs away from the meal and your guests is very important.



Sound Systems






This may also seem like a no-brainer but having a proper sound system is essential. There is nothing worse than sitting through a ceremony and straining to hear the “I do’s”. You assume the bride said yes because they kissed at the end but you never actually heard a single word they said! I always make certain to have the proper equipment including lapel microphones, amps, speakers and extra extension chords so the guests can actually hear the main event.



As the summer wedding season comes to a close, I couldn’t be more pleased with the couples I’ve had the privilege of working with. Together we planned one of the most important days of their lives and created cherished memories not only for them but also the friends and family in attendance. The ultimate compliment for a bride and groom is when the guests tell them that their wedding was the best they have ever been to, and nothing pleases me more than to hear that.


Thursday, August 11, 2011

Move over Cupcakes …Cake Pops are IN!


The newest phenomenon to hit the wedding favours market is CAKE POPS. These tasty treats are highly customizable to fit any décor theme or flavour. Shaped like a lollipop with the charm of a cupcake, they are sure to have your guests raving.


These treats are perfect as wedding favours for your guests. You can put your monogram on the cake pops… or your initials… or your wedding date… or anything else you come up with. If you can dream it up, it can be whipped up.


And just think of all the possible ways to display them! Use them as table arrangements, wedding favours, or order them as boxed arrangements for thank you gifts. They can be individually wrapped and ready to go or uniquely displayed as part of your wedding décor. Or you can take it one step farther, by having a cake ball cake!



A cake ball cake is easily served and omits that messy cake cutting. They are bite sized so they can easily be shared between bride & groom. As well the WOW factor of tiers of cake balls will have your guests raving even before they have had a taste.

So if you are looking for a unique treat as well as décor element for you and your guests consider cake pops on your special day!





Thursday, June 23, 2011

It’s a GIRL!

Besides the fact that my career is planning events, hosting a baby shower for a friend or family member is one of my favourite things! Long go the days of baby shower themes involving storks & giant pink safety pins. Today, showers are all about beautiful & modern ideas from invitations to decor, delicious menus & adorable details. Anything that will make the mother to be feel incredibly special!

In celebration of my beautiful baby daughter, Lucia Tait, born this past February, I have been fortunate enough to be on the other side of the baby shower, as the honoured guest, instead of the event planner. How I LOVE a good party! Friends & family from different circles, all coming together to celebrate a new life!

1. Create a Theme – A baby shower theme can be as simple as picking a favourite color and expanding from there.

2. Send out personalized Invitations – A custom invitation that is specific to the theme of your party will ‘wow’ your guests and start your planning in the right direction.

3. Enhance the space with Decor– Once chosen on a color theme, the decor can show up in a variety of ways to enhance the space you’re in. Work with the space to get the most out of every corner. From linen to flowers and candles to even creatively use the new babies name in a decorative way.

4. Choose a Menu – Foods that are rich and full of life as well as easy to prepare and serve make for the perfect shower menu. That way you’ll spend the most time with your guests instead of in the kitchen. Don’t forget a refreshing cocktail/mocktail to enhance the celebration!

5. Hand out creative Favours – Traditionally a favour is given to each guest to thank them for attending. These can range from edible chocolates, candy or fruit to decorative items such as soaps, candles, or flowers; or even a memorable keepsake such as a photo of the new baby. Favours are not only thoughtful, but can be creatively displayed to provide extra decor for the party.

By following these simple steps your next baby shower will be a beautiful, detailed & fun event that won’t soon be forgotten.



Kimberly Evans
Partner & Director of Special Events